Divorce is never easy. It’s emotionally taxing, financially challenging, and legally complex. With so much at stake, it’s crucial to separate fact from fiction. Johnson & Boon Solicitors is here to debunk some common divorce myths and shed light on the reality of the legal process.
Myth #1: “I have to prove fault to get a divorce in the UK.”
Fact: In the UK, you can get a divorce without proving fault. While fault-based grounds such as adultery or unreasonable behaviour can speed up the process, you can also file for divorce based on separation—either two years with consent or five years without. According to the Office for National Statistics, 62% of divorces in England and Wales in 2020 were granted on the grounds of separation. This myth often causes unnecessary stress and conflict during an already difficult time.
Myth #2: “Mothers always get custody of the children.”
Fact: UK family courts prioritise the best interests of the child above all else. There is no automatic preference for mothers in custody decisions. In fact, research from the Ministry of Justice shows that joint custody arrangements are increasingly common, with both parents sharing responsibility for their children’s upbringing. Every case is unique, and custody arrangements depend on various factors, including each parent’s involvement in the child’s life and their ability to provide a stable environment.
Myth #3: “I’ll lose everything in the divorce.”
Fact: Divorce settlements aim to achieve fairness and ensure both parties can move forward with their lives. UK law considers factors such as the duration of the marriage, each spouse’s financial contributions, and their future needs. While asset division can be complex, it doesn’t mean you’ll lose everything. Johnson & Boon Solicitors can help you navigate the process and negotiate a settlement that protects your interests.
Myth #4: “I can’t afford a solicitor for my divorce.”
Fact: Many people assume that hiring a solicitor is too expensive, but it can actually save you time, money, and stress in the long run. A skilled solicitor can help you understand your rights, negotiate fair terms, and avoid costly mistakes. Additionally, legal aid is available for those who qualify, providing financial assistance for legal representation in certain cases. At Johnson & Boon Solicitors, we offer transparent pricing and flexible payment options to ensure access to quality legal support for all clients.
Myth #5: “Divorce always ends in a courtroom battle.”
Fact: While some divorces may require litigation, many can be resolved through alternative dispute resolution methods such as mediation or collaborative law. These approaches focus on finding mutually acceptable solutions outside of court, minimising conflict and preserving relationships. According to the Ministry of Justice, only 2% of divorces in England and Wales result in a final contested court hearing. Johnson & Boon Solicitors is committed to helping clients explore all available options and choose the path that best suits their needs.
If you’re facing a divorce or considering your options, don’t let common myths cloud your judgment. Johnson & Boon Solicitors is here to provide clarity, guidance, and support every step of the way. Contact us today at 0151 637 2034 or email info@johnsonandboon.co.uk for personalised advice and expert legal assistance. Your future starts now.